I think we all know the damned common phrase "People change". We are all fully aware of it, directly, or not we are affected by it. What is it that changes a person? This question is uncommon, because we usually shrug it off and be biased saying, "He changed, not me". Or “She did”
Here's the thing, are we sure only one party change? Why don't we ask ourselves, did we change ourselves? I mean, surely if people can change, so can we. Either by how we want a particular person to be, or we just change to adapt to something we’re not used to; like moving places, making new people. Sometimes we don’t even notice that we’ve changed. So do we still think it’s only ‘him/her’ that changed?
No. let’s take one simple situation, you’ve had differences with your best friend, and now you barely talk. What happened was, you had an opinion, ad your friend the exact opposite opinion, and you guys argue about it. Now the question is whose fault? It’s ambiguous right?
Now, when you’re aware of the amount of changes happening everyday around you, you’ll be aware of changes in people close to you, or even yourself. At times or another, you’ll be criticized saying you’ve changed, and then trying too hard to change back just to make it worse.
Until this point, you’re thinking this post don’t make sense, and you’ll think you won’t understand, but one day, it’ll happen to you, and you’ll get it.
Anyway, well now you’ve tried changing yourself back everything comes crashing down and from bare talks to no talking at all. It’ll happen, some can be changed back, some can’t. but not permanently.
In fact, these little changes are daily impacts on us that we may shrug it off, but then think about it and get all stressed out about it. You’ll be asking, why is the title so irrelevant, point is, whatever changes you, then that exact same thing WILL change you again, either back to who you were (yes its possible) or to something you never thought you can ever be, in both perspective, positive and/or negative.
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