You know how several times I've come across how things will tend to change, or people changing. Well now, moving away from that, it's not about moving on and leaving people who changed, or leaving a situation because it changed.. but in fact changing the situation or yourself, towards a person that constantly changes.
I am barely of any age, but if I jump to conclusion I think I can get to it as accurate as I can.
A bonded promise. A guarantee. A bond. We know this kind of... Transaction as marriage. Of course I refer to one that lasts, not a stupid one night love and get married, but a built up of emotions that leads to years, to families. How then, this so common phenomena, can marriage last?
Despite all that I have mentioned about all the changes in people, and what is love, I believe that this is all simple. People change, yes. Situation changes, yes. What the two people does is that, over time, they cope with each other's changes. Either they adapt to the other's changes, or pull the other to avoid a certain change. This is one of those unspoken promises or self-realisation that in a lot of events happen, but this one works gradually and gets stronger by the day of being together. There is always times of argument, but that is just human nature.
Now the title might imply something of the negative, but really, it isn't. Who wouldn't love to be stuck to someone they love the rest of their lives?
Entertaining as always :D
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